Love is Never Painless

03/18/2010 01:05

Growing up as a little girl, I always thought love was just a fairy tale and happen just like they do in the movies. When you put your heart out there to love, there’s a risk for it to be hurt. You have to trust the person you love and trust that they will love you through it all. Aristotle said “We cannont learn without pain.” Without pain, you wouldn’t know how to appreciate and cherish the good things. You should use your pain and learn from it; learn that if you really do love somebody, you will stick out the fight…Pain, patience, and prosperity. You go through the pain with love, you have to have patience that everything will work out when it’s time, and your love for one another will continue to prosper.

Easily giving up should not be an option when you truly love someone. It’s always easier said than done. There has been many times where I just wanted to give up on relationships and love. It sometimes gets to a point where you’re just tired of going through the pain and emotions and tired of your love being taken for granted. I know that love is never painless, so with that I have learned to fight through the pain and love with all my heart. Yes, I’m aware of the “symptoms” of pain…shedding of tears, lonely nights, testing of patience, and going through different emotions…but at the end of the day…Love is never painless.